What’s the Difference Between Self-Fill and Ashes Jewellery?
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Choosing Between Self-Fill and Ashes Jewellery – A Helpful Guide
When choosing memorial jewellery, many people wonder about the difference between self-fill and ashes-in-resin jewellery. Both are meaningful ways to honour a loved one — but the process, appearance, and emotional experience are very different. This guide explains the pros and cons of each to help you choose the piece that feels right for you.
What Is Self-Fill Jewellery?
Self-fill jewellery is a type of memorial necklace that includes a small compartment you can fill yourself with ashes, fur, or hair at home. Each necklace comes with a tiny funnel and clear instructions, so you can complete the process in your own time.
What Is Ashes Jewellery?
Ashes jewellery is made using a small amount of ashes, fur, or hair that you send to our studio. We carefully seal these within a resin setting inside your chosen pendant or ring. The result is a handcrafted piece that holds your loved one gently and securely.
Key Differences Between the Two:
| Feature | Self-Fill Jewellery | Ashes-in-Resin Jewellery |
|---|---|---|
| How it's filled | You fill it at home | We set ashes in resin and return to you |
| Timeframe | Immediate | 2–3 weeks after sending ashes |
| Customisation | Add your own ashes, hair, or fur | Choose colours, shapes, engravings |
| Appearance | Discreet metal urn chamber | Decorative resin with visible inclusions |
| Cost | Generally more affordable | Slightly higher due to craftsmanship |
| Ashes return? | You keep the ashes at home | Leftover ashes returned with finished piece |
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I see the ashes in ashes jewellery?
No. The ashes, fur, or hair are sealed beneath a smooth resin surface, so they’re not visible. This creates a soft, subtle finish.
Is one more secure than the other?
Both are designed to be safe and long-lasting. Self-fill jewellery is sealed using a discreet screw cap. Ashes jewellery is permanently sealed by our team with professional techniques.
Can I wear them every day?
Yes. All of our pieces are suitable for daily wear. To keep them in the best condition, we recommend removing them before showering, swimming, or sleeping.
Can I create jewellery for a pet?
Absolutely. Many customers choose to honour a beloved dog, cat, or other companion animal. Both options are suitable, and you’re welcome to include your pet’s name on the certificate if you choose ashes jewellery.
Do I have to send a lot of ashes or fur?
Not at all. We only need a small amount - around quarter a teaspoon of ashes or a small lock of fur or hair. Anything unused will be safely returned to you.
Is it safe to send ashes through the post?
Yes. For UK orders, we provide a complete ashes kit with sealable packaging and a pre-paid return envelope. For international orders, we’ll guide you through secure mailing step-by-step.
Still Unsure? We’re Here to Help
If you're finding it difficult to decide, please know you’re not alone. Many of our customers contact us with questions, and we’re always happy to offer kind, honest advice.
Whether you choose to fill your keepsake yourself or have us craft it for you, we’re honoured to help you carry their memory close - always.